What do most men do when they want to seduce their wives or girlfriends? They get in from work, drop their briefcase, walk straight into the kitchen where the woman is slaving over a hot meal and clumsily grope her from behind, with nothing more than a grunt: "hey, babe, fancy some loving tonight?" This type of behavior is more common than you think and men everywhere are guilty of it. This just about sums up the seduction technique of "Neanderthal Man," the ancient caveman with ZERO class or finesse to his personality whatsoever. Yeah, he might on occasion get laid but I guarantee the sex would be nothing like it should be, and he is performing way below his true potential in the relationship. You enjoy much, much better sex when you push her buttons in the right way. It is definitely more than worth the effort to learn "proper seduction." What you have to understand is that any act of seduction starts long before you get into bed together. Always make sure to start the process first thing in the morning. Before you leave for work or whatever, give her a long, slow cuddle and lots of "innocent" kisses. When you get to work, make the effort to take five minutes to call or text her. Simply tell her in the message that you were thinking about her, hope she's having a good day and that "you can't wait to get home tonight." On your way back home, stop by a flower place and pick her up some flowers and chocolate or any other gift you know she'd like (yes flowers and chocolate is a clich, but it works, and that's all that matters to you.) Once you get home, greet her with the presents and ask her how her day has been. She will surprise you with her gratitude when you do this. Not being used to the attention she'll begin to pay more attention to YOU and ask more about your day and what you've been up to. Leave her for a minute and go freshen up. Make sure you're well groomed and smelling nice. Then ask her if she'd like you to run a bath for her. You might even be reading this and cracking up laughing at the very thought of doing all these "alien" things. If that's the case, then this tells you a lot about what you have to do to get yourself a one way ticket out of "Neanderthal Caveman-Ville." But don't think you need to do it all at once. Work your way up to it by at least doing ONE thing from the sequence each time you attempt a seduction. And if she suspiciously asks you why you're doing all this new romantic stuff, tell her you had a brain transplant. So you sit down together to a quiet meal. Just talk about her for the evening. Resist the temptation to talk about yourself tonight. (come on, I'm sure it can't be that hard, can it?) At this point, if you've done everything correctly so far, she should be getting MASSIVELY turned on right about now. You've pushed all the sexual triggers in her to respond powerfully to your touch. But DO NOT just pounce on her yet. There's a bit more work to be done here. Suggest to her that you go up and enjoy giving her a nice bubble bath. Even if she says she's ready to have sex with you there and then, DO NOT give in or do anything. You see, the more teasing you do with a woman, the more turned on she gets. You see, with women the main currency of sexual attraction is summed up in one very important word, "Anticipation." Why do you think women absolutely LOVE men who remain mysterious? Why do you think women LOVE soap operas and watch them religiously week in and week out? Think of anticipation as a temperature thermostat or a dial which can be turned up or down by manipulating the object. The higher you crank up the "volume" or temperature of the thermostat, the more turned on the woman will become. Follow this up by SLOWLY starting to get physically intimate and you will be surprised at the end result. You will end up having the very BEST sex of your life. |
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